i try awfully hard to live by the golden rule: do unto others......and all that goes along with it. i try very hard to be respectful of others and help them out when at all possible. in the past month i can think of a couple of occassions where i have tried to help someone out and it wasn't appreciated at all, and not only was it not appreciated, but i was made to feel as if i didn't know what i was talking about, or that i was wrong. i'm starting to understand why so many other people on this planet just mind thier own business and let others sink or swim. i might ought to try that tactic a bit more myself. it would relieve my frustration level, to be sure!!
i *really* should have stuck to the "rule" i made for myself after the jovi fan club days......when will i ever learn?????????
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i think the the "sink or swim" tactic is just not who we are as individuals...what we need to learn is not to get sooooo involved that we can't take a step back to see what's really going on...what i've learned is that if you're the person who developed something...and is in charge of it...there's always the ability to "pull the plug" and move on...but it has to be yours to do it...not something that you've become a part of and inherit resposibility...all yours...and if someone doesn't like it....you can become become an aficionado of the word "banned" like myself..see ya!
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